Friday, February 21, 2014

Family Mystery

 
We visited the greenhouses yesterday. Inside it was as warm and bright and verdant as summer. I felt like skipping, but I restrained myself for my children's sake.: ) There is still lots of snow outside, but today is the third day of 40° temperatures and it is all soft and melty like whipped cream.

I opened the stack of new notebooks I received for my birthday back in January. I keep a diary and regularly fill them up. Each morning I record the date, the weather, my blood pressure (I struggle with hypertension; I am, unfortunately, a sensitive, nervous sort) and little quotes, notes and daily happenings.

I have always been intrigued by my family history, but it is nearly impossible to learn anything beyond the names and dates of the people who came before me. How I wish that some of them would have kept a diary, or the letters they received, or even a kitchen receipt book! On my father's side of the family tree there is nothing. We do not even have a true name. My maiden name (Nodzo) is an invention. It exists nowhere in the world except upstate New York. My great-grandfather Jacob Nodzo came to the United States from the Kingdom of Galicia in 1909. He and his family were musicians. He had two brothers and two sisters and each of the three Nodzo "branches" has a different telling of our family's origin. One branch talks of a noble Austrian heritage, another says Hungarian, Jacob identified himself as Ukrainian, but his daughter, my great aunt Helen told me that her father was Jewish. So who knows? (My father has a rare autoimmune disease that primarily effects people of Eastern European Jewish descent, so the Jewish thing makes sense to me, but Dad insists his grandfather was Ukrainian Catholic)  As for me, I plan on leaving behind enough notebooks and letters to satisfy any of my great-great grandchildren's curiosity about their ancestor.

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10 comments:

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  2. Oh how annoying, I wanted to edit my comment so copied it then deleted, and now blogger won't let me paste ...

    Um, let me see if I can get some of it back ...

    It must be wonderful to have such a mysterious and romantic figure in your history, from such an enchanting place, and a musician too ... a gypsy musician perhaps ... But I understand the frustration about not having further details. On one side of my family we have the same problem, a great-great-grandfather who fled his native land and arrived here under a psuedonym. We don't know if he was Irish, Scottish, or just plain English - and it actually does matter to me. Maybe I would be happier if he was romantic like your ancestor, and originally the story was he was fleeing military conscription, but the truth emerged finally that he was just running out on a boring life he didn't like.

    On the other side of the family we have more information, and although it doesn't change how I feel about myself it does give me some wonderful stories.

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  3. I love visiting greenhouses at this time of year!

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  4. For some reason, I got the thought that Nodzo was a gypsy name - Romanian? Intriguing, but frustrating, I imagine.

    Greenhouses are irresistible places!

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  5. How I wish we could trade a little of each other's weather, you send snow and I'll send spring weather your way.
    I wish my family had kept diaries too, but sadly they didn't either. My grandfather is still alive, but his memory has started to fade and he has forgotten a lot. My great grandmother was a full blooded Native American and I would love to know more about her, but I don't know where to look.
    Our homes sound the same, we have dogs, a cat, a rabbit, turkeys, ducks, and chickens. We had a goat, but she wouldn't milk so she is now vacationing on another farm. Animals are a lot of work aren't they?
    Have a great weekend.

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  6. I saw your first two pictures and SMILED -- what a treat to see those beautiful colors! I've been thinking of visiting the botanical gardens in the next big city. I want to smell things growing. You began to describe your family history and I thought of Chocolat. I love the gypsy scenes in that movie.

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  7. love the photos, so springlike and hopeful. And your journals are perfect for late february journalling :) I only have slips of paper that my mother wrote on and maybe somewhere in a box some letters from my Gram. Other than that, not written word :(

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  8. The pictures of all those flowers made me sing - there is hope for Spring! We had a wonderful warm weekend here but it's back to the cold today. Oh well.

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  9. Your diaries will be wonderful records for future generations Sue...your blog too. The story sounds so romantic so far. I have my mother's diaries from the 2nd world war. I love to read on the same day all this time after and see what she was doing.
    Thanks for sharing your story.
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  10. Your family history is intriguing. We have similar issues with my maternal grandmother's side of the family. There is very little information about her father or grandfather. It is rumored that her father committed suicide during the depression, but who knows. And there is strong evidence that her grandfather was a Cannuck (which was from what I can gather not a good thing) and when her grandmother married him she was disowned (supposedly by her very wealthy father). My grandmother had a habit of embellishing so it's hard to know how much is true.

    I love those little notebooks!

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