Tuesday, April 22, 2014

 
 

 

The past few days have been bright and warm. The trees are, at last, waking up. Chartreuse halos light up the willows all along the edge of the pond. After morning lessons, we go to the woods to play and marvel at each new sign of spring: duck and geese couples, clusters of delicate wood violets, turtles basking on logs, willow and hazel catkins. It is my favorite place to be. ♥

I am teaching Amy how to drive. She is my third driving student. : ) Every day we go out and practice a little bit. So far so good.

I often think about education, what it is and how to pursue it. In Married to Tolstoy I learned that:
Both parents gave the children lessons. Until special teachers were engaged for French, German, music, and Russian literature, Sonya taught all these subjects and dancing as well; Tolstoy arithmetic and, later, Greek. 
Sonya herself had been educated at home:
She loved literature, wrote short stories, showed talent for painting and music, and at sixteen passed a university examination that gave her a diploma as a teacher. Her essay was declared the best of the year. It was remembered, too, for hearing of her engagement (at eighteen), the professor wrote to Tolstoy: 'This is just the wife for you. She has a great flair for literature.'
Indeed, besides bearing him thirteen children in twenty-six years, Sonya acted as her husband's secretary, copying out miles and miles of his manuscripts; in the case of War and Peace, seven drafts. (It is interesting to me that Robert Louis Stevenson's wife acted as his amanuensis, too.)

But, this is what I love most about the Tolstoy's married life (which here, again, is similar to the Stevensons'):
When at last the children had been put to bed, and the manuscript on which Sonya was working laid aside, husband and wife would side down to the piano and play duets far into the night, or read aloud some favourite book. Tolstoy gave Sonya her early lessons in English. He wanted her to be able to read Dickens, for many years his favourite writer, but the first book they read together was The Woman in White, by Wilkie Collins.
Now, that struck me as coincidental, since I, too, read The Woman in White last fall, just before I caught the Tolstoy bug. Somehow, I have never read anything by Charles Dickens. He keeps coming up for me as of late, so I am going to pursue him next. However, I won't be reading aloud with my husband. He would only fall asleep. ; )

4 comments:

  1. What a brilliant green on that duck's head! But you've never read Dickens! Susan! I so enjoyed reading about Pip in high school.

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  2. What a lovely post thanks for sharing these little peeks into Tolstoy's home life. I had to giggle at your last comment. But I loved their shared interests.

    Your photographs are beautiful...I love those turtles. What a beautiful spot close by to you. Thank you for sharing with us.
    Happy days.
    debx

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  3. oh those outside photos sing to me! Teaching my son to drive was a breeze, my daughter was a bit more challenging for me.

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  4. My oldest does not want to be behind the wheel as of yet, I try not to push. It is better to teach him when he is good and ready...beautiful pictures Susan. Mari :)

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