Sunday, November 29, 2015

                                                         
My belly is full of turkey and pumpkin pie, and my heart is full of family and thanksgiving. It has been a tough year for my family, but we are together and that makes for happy golden days despite illness and job loss and  temporal uncertainty. 
"The course of the liturgical year and the message continues, and we keep on doing things--but not for the sake of custom and tradition. It comes from a sense of certitude about things and mankind and revelation--things that are fixed and valid in and of themselves. These give mankind the right to light candles and to believe in the light and brightness of existence." ~Fr. Alfred Delp (†1945) was a German Jesuit priest condemned to death by the Nazis in Berlin, Germany. 
Dogs are paragons of patience. If they think there is something good to be had they will wait ever so nicely for as long as necessary. They have faith in the goodness of their master. 

On the Saturday evening after Thanksgiving, our town holds its annual tree lighting festival. We never miss it. There are horse drawn wagon rides, choirs of carolers, sheep and goats to pet, ice sculptures, and glittering trees and lights. Everything is free. The Towanda Club even gave out free hot chocolate.

I have always loved Christmas music. But, what I didn't realize is that, really, the only kind of music I like is Christmas music. Most people assume that I am a music lover because I sing and my family are musicians. The truth is that I don't intentionally listen to music except at Christmastime. Mind you, there is always music being played by someone in the house: guitar, piano, drums, or ukulele; and it's wonderful, but it's their music.
Now is the time for my music, and I am loving it. My favorite carols of all are by Alfred Burt. The Singers Unlimited have done nice acapella versions. Do you have a favorite Christmas carol?

 My house never looks better than it does at Christmastime. While people were out Black Friday shopping, we got busy with some of our decorating:








































































This bureau, and almost everything on it, are second hand flea market purchases. I found the wee Christmas mice a couple of Sundays ago. And, this morning  I was so pleased to find a very good Grandma Moses print entitled, "Out for the Christmas Trees". Paul hung it up for me as soon as we got home. I love the wintry scene of upstate New York and plan to leave it up all winter. Unfortunately, there is a bit of window glare on the glass in this photo, so you can't really see how wonderful it is. Today was the last day of the market until next spring. The little Christmas tree we've had for years and years. When my daughters were little, it was their dollies' tree.

Over the weekend, I had some moments of sorrowful reflection about this hurting planet. It seems to me that with a bounty of things already in existence, there should be enough for everyone without having to continue to make more and more and more. Maybe old things need a little care, a little polish or a few stitches, but they are still good.

I've read some good things in my prayer book that I want to share over the next few days. For now I will leave you with these verses from today's morning prayer: 
We urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, cheer the fainthearted, support the weak, be patient with all. See that no one returns evil for evil; rather, always seek what is good [both] for each other and for all. Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. Thessalonians 5:14-17 

10 comments:

  1. First I want to tell you thank you for the socks and other gifts, you made me cry [happy tears].
    I pray that things turn around and are easier for your family, I don't talk about it on my blog, but it's been a pretty hard year for my family as well, and I am just ready for the year to be over, praying next year is better.
    I think your town sounds like a wonderful town to live in, especially at Christmas time.
    My favorite Christmas song is, White Christmas, I start humming it around Thanksgiving time with my fingers crossed ;)

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    1. Tracey, it was my pleasure to have the opportunity to send you a little love. I'm really sorry to hear that your family has had a tough year, too. I will keep you all in my prayers.
      I hope you'll see snow this season! ♥

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  2. When I read that Thessalonians this morning, I told myself to remember it all Advent - and haven't thought of it since! Thank you for posting it!
    Your local tree lighting sounds very pleasant. I hope the next year will be better for you all.

    (those dog statues in your kitchen are very life-like!) :D

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    1. That happens to me all the time--I tell myself to remember something and then promptly forget. Thank you for the good thoughts for next year. ♥

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  3. Thank you for sharing your holiday spirit with us. For the first time this year I heard Christmas music today. I'm not sure what I felt - my heart responded in some wordless way. This has been a hard year for many people, and I can only hope 2016 will bring blessings to the world. And also to you and your lovely family.

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    1. Blessings to the world. I hope for that, too.♥ Thank you for your kind comment, Sarah.

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  4. Your house really does look lovely, Sue! My three were getting excited about getting out our tomtens that you made for us. They are such a part of our celebration! Thank you for sharing your good work and your heart. Happy St Andrew's Eve <3

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  5. I love your post today. Very heart-warming and friendly. Well done for getting the decorations under way, and having such a reverence for your treasured things and finding second hand ones. I'm a big believer in enough and tend to recycle rather than buying new stuff, (plus I absolutely hate to pay retail...lol) But I also have a communications degree and work with and understand advertising and how new goods contribute to the country's economy. I've more than once cursed built-in obsolescence! But I'm not a fan of this black Friday business. Someone posted a compilation video up on FB and I just have to think, "what's wrong with people?" Do people really need a newer TV, another kitchen appliance? In England, where I live half the time, there's a very strong ethos in the "with what you have" philosophy. I love seeing that in you. The little more care, little bit of polish, a proper clean, iron and fold. :D

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    1. Thank you for your kind comment, Veronica. I've been thinking a lot lately about the current economy and how reluctant most of us are to any change it its structure; we strive to protect it. A few weeks ago, I watched a film called "Human", perhaps you've seen it? In Volume One an old man from Uruguay had this to say: "The way we live and our values are the expression of the society we live in. And we cling to that; it doesn't matter if I am the president. I've thought about all this a lot. I spent ten years in a solitary confinement cell. I had the time . . . I spent seven years without opening a book. It left me time to think. This is what I discovered. Either you are happy with very little, without overburdening yourself, because you have happiness inside, or you'll get nowhere. I am not advocating poverty. I am advocating sobriety. But we invented a consumer society, which is continually seeking growth. When there's no growth it's tragic. We have invented a mountain of superfluous needs. You have to keep buying, throwing away, buying, throwing away . . . It's our lives we are squandering. When I buy something, or when you buy it, we're not paying with money. We're paying with the time from our lives we had to spend to earn that money. The difference is that you can't buy life. Life just goes by. And it's terrible wasting your life, losing your freedom."

      Good thoughts!

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