Monday, February 1, 2016





















































I have always been intrigued by the daily routines of famous people because, as Annie Dillard famously penned in her book The Writing Life, "How we spend our days, is of course, how we spend our lives."  It strikes me that whether or not a person's days are carefully planned, they will acquire a familiar shape over time which either advances or limits that person's aspirations. Here are the daily routines of a handful of writers and artists:

Kurt Vonnegut:
In an unmoored life like mine, sleep and hunger and work arrange themselves to suit themselves, without consulting me. I’m just as glad they haven’t consulted me about the tiresome details. What they have worked out is this: I awake at 5:30, work until 8:00, eat breakfast at home, work until 10:00, walk a few blocks into town, do errands, go to the nearby municipal swimming pool, which I have all to myself, and swim for half an hour, return home at 11:45, read the mail, eat lunch at noon. In the afternoon I do schoolwork, either teach or prepare. When I get home from school at about 5:30, I numb my twanging intellect with several belts of Scotch and water ($5.00/fifth at the State Liquor store, the only liquor store in town. There are loads of bars, though.), cook supper, read and listen to jazz (lots of good music on the radio here), slip off to sleep at ten. I do pushups and sit-ups all the time, and feel as though I am getting lean and sinewy, but maybe not. Last night, time and my body decided to take me to the movies. I saw The Umbrellas of Cherbourg, which I took very hard. To an unmoored, middle-aged man like myself, it was heart-breaking. That’s all right. I like to have my heart broken. (Written from his post at the prestigious Iowa Writer's Workshop to his wife Jane, who stayed at Cape Cod with their children.)

Novelist Joy Williams writes simply and poetically of her daily routine:
Tea and fruit in the morning, then four or five hours of solid work, a salad for lunch. A nap, in which my lost loved ones come to me and tell me they’re happy and still love me, a walk through bird-songed woods, followed by several more hours of oxygenated work. Drinks with friends, each more accomplished and interesting than the other, then bed, windows flung open to the soothing pounding of the sea, turning rock over rock, all messages which will fuel the morrow’s pages coming to me in friendly and artful dreams…

Herman Melville wrote a letter to his friend (the editor of The New York Literary Journal) about his new life in Massachusett's Berkshire Mountains in 1850:
Do you want to know how I pass my time? — I rise at eight — thereabouts — & go to my barn — say good-morning to the horse, & give him his breakfast. (It goes to my heart to give him a cold one, but it can’t be helped) Then, pay a visit to my cow — cut up a pumpkin or two for her, & stand by to see her eat it — for its a pleasant sight to see a cow move her jaws — she does it so mildly & with such a sanctity. — My own breakfast over, I go to my work-room & light my fire — then spread my M.S.S. [manuscripts] on the table — take one business squint at it, & fall to with a will. At 2-½ P.M. I hear a preconcerted knock at my door, which (by request) continues till I rise & go to the door, which serves to wean me effectively from my writing, however interested I may be. My friends the horse & cow now demand their dinner — & I go & give it them. My own dinner over, I rig my sleigh & with my mother or sisters start off for the village — & if it be a Literary World day, great is the satisfaction thereof. — My evenings I spend in a sort of mesmeric state in my room — not being able to read — only now & then skimming over some large-printed book.

Anne Truitt wrote about her daily routine while living at the Yarddo artist community in Saratoga Springs, NY. She was 53 years old:
I have settled into the most comfortable routine I have ever known in my working life. I wake very early and, after a quiet period, have my breakfast in my room: cereal, fruit, nuts, the remainder of my luncheon thermos of milk, and coffee. Then I write in my notebook in bed. By this time, the sun is well up and the pine trees waft delicious smells into my room. My whole body sings with the knowledge that nothing is expected of me except what I expect of myself. I dress, do my few room chores, walk to the mansion to pick up my lunch box (a sandwich, double fruit, double salad — often a whole head of new lettuce) and thermos of milk, and walk down the winding road to my Stone South studio.At noon, I stop working, walk up through the meadow to West House, have a reading lunch at my desk, and nap. By 2:30 or so I am back in the studio. Late in the afternoon, I return to my room, have a hot bath and dress for dinner. It is heavenly to work until I am tired, knowing that the evening will be effortless. Dinner is a peaceful pleasure. Afterward I usually return to my solitude, happy to have been in good company, happy to leave it. I read, or write letters, have another hot bath in the semidarkness of my room, and sink quietly to sleep.
I am struck by a few things in these routines. The first is joy--these people love what they do and also notice and take pleasure in simple things like birdsong and the scent of pines. The second is rest. Their work is relieved by frequent breaks:  walks, naps, conversation, food, and other ordinary enjoyments. The third is that all of these people require solitude to work. To that point, none of them are responsible for caring for children or other people. Lastly, their routines flow in a manner that provides a great deal of space for movement and being. 

I have noticed in my own life that my routine changes seasonally. For example, in winter, I rarely walk in the woods during the work week because the days are too short (by February my body and spirit seriously begins to long for spring). My summer routine has a different shape from my winter days which currently look like this:

I'm up at 7:30 most mornings. I sit down at the table with a glass of water and pray while watching the birds and squirrels at the feeder. I write yesterday's news in my journal  and then around 8:30 I make breakfast and get the day's lessons ready. School lasts until 1 or 2 o'clock with a break for lunch at noon. During those morning hours I keep the laundry rotating, write, read, and knit a bit, and assist everyone however I can. There is often deep conversation on all manner of topics from our studies to the upcoming elections to space travel and the costs of owning a home in eastern Massachusetts. After school, I tackle any larger chores that need doing, run errands, attend appointments, and make phone calls. At 4 o'clock I usually have a cup of tea and a piece of cake and sit at the computer to read blogs and attend to email, although some days I take a twenty minute nap. At 5 o'clock. I begin preparing supper, which is at 6. From 7 to 9 I read or do a crossword puzzle. I watch television and knit from 9 to 11. Then, I retire to a quiet spot with my prayer book before going to bed at 11:30

What is the current shape of your days?

*These routines and others can be found on the incomparable Maria Popova's fabulous website Brain Pickings: an inventory of the meaningful life.

7 comments:

  1. Your days seem lovely. Mine are currently less regulated than yours and the examples you give - I don't really have any routines which I keep for myself. Well, I have breakfast first thing, and I try to have dinner around 5pm, but that's all. Also, I see myself in this context as less an individual than a member of a family. For example, we have individual time when I write and others do their thing ... we go shopping ... we have a dinner hour ... and so on. I guess many modern women would say that I subsume myself too much in my family. :-) But I have read descriptions of mothers' days in which I wonder if they even have a family at all, because they're never mentioned.

    I think you are lucky to have such rich domestic days, and your family is lucky to have you at their helm. :-)

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  2. Thank you for saying such nice things about me.♥

    The examples in my post show the general shape of the writers' days, but I know for myself that individual days may not always fit the pattern, which is what makes a routine different from a schedule.

    My summer routine is very different from my winter one, because there are no formal lessons, the days are longer, and we go on lots of little adventures. But still, there is an underlying organization that shapes the flow of time and orders our activities. For example, my daughters both have paper routes, so no matter where we have gotten off to during a summer day, we must be back home by 3 o'clock.

    A lot of the blogs I read are written by mothers who rarely mention their families. A lot of these women use blogging as an outlet to talk about their creative pursuits: art, knitting, photography, or writing. However, I don't think this means that they aren't strongly attached to their families or that their days aren't deeply intertwined. Unfortunately, the internet provides a very narrow and incomplete picture of a person. I often find myself longing for a fuller view of the bloggers I regularly read and enjoy.

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  3. Beautiful post Susan.
    My days are so different now than they were just a few years ago. With only one child left at home, who is taller than me, I have a lot more me time than I've ever had, I still can't convince all my babies to move back home ;) I am taking a few on line classes, knitting, planning the upcoming months and slowly cleaning out my home {again!}. My winter season is like yours, different from spring, but with the days slowly growing longer I find myself outside much more.

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  4. I have been listening to the book "Daily Rituals" by Mason Currey. I find the rituals and daily life of people so fascinating. My days and weeks are somewhat routine. There's something comforting in the sameness of it with slight shift for different seasons.

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  5. What a beautiful window star! I have been wanting to make more (and find the half dozen I made last summer), but I worry little hands would crumple them up. My days, well, they are those of early motherhood. Early to bed and early to rise for me.

    Brandy

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  6. We have some similar routines, I'm up at 5:30 writing my yesterday news and sipping coffee, then pray and read the daily mass readings, then shower, finally breakfast. Lots of email responding running errands and taking care of the home. After lunch is knitting and preparing dinner. I miss the kids being here as part of my day!!

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  7. My days vary quite a bit, but mornings are pretty similar. I rise about 7:00, shower, eat breakfast and leave about ten til 8 to drive my daughter to school. After that, I run errands, attend yoga class or walk. I strive to be home by noon for lunch. At 3:10 the alarm goes off alerting me that it's time to pick my daughter up. This is the first year I've had to drive a child to school, and thankfully, it will be the only! We moved over the summer and she stayed at the middle school near our old house to finish her 8th grade year. My afternoons are spent reading, cleaning etc. we usually eat dinner around 7:00-7:30 (husband has a long commute!). I have a handful of volunteer gigs that often alter my routines, but they are all things I enjoy doing. Susan, have you visited the website mymorningroutine.com? It's fascinating.

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